When one friend lives in Oakland and the other in San Francisco and neither wants to cross the Bay, so each proposes a plan to hang out trying to convince the other to make the trek.
Person 1 "come hang out in Oakland, it's super interesting"
Person 2 "why don't we go to North Beach in the city instead"
Person 1 "we always hang out in SF, let's do Oakland tonight"
Person 2 "is there a Warriors game?"
Person 1 "no"
Person 2 "then we're hanging out in the city"
Cross Bay Chicken