femanality

Noun. The conversational condition, logical conclusion, or state of a woman having lost an argument or discussion due to her having provided asinine, illogical, feminist extremist, sexist, toxic, or otherwise unreasonable rhetoric, resulting in her having no recourse but resort to insulting, guilting, or shaming tactics to deflect from, cease, or continue the exchange.

Monica hated when Paul said it was her fault that she had gotten pregnant for her loser ex boyfriend, and not the guy's. Her having said, "my body, my choice" was the femanality that crushed her position.