To retain a thought-process in accordance with oneâs own personal agenda; to not give a flying fuck about anyone else. This usually comes with an air of arrogance, and (sometimes) slight douchebaggery .
Example one:
Matt: That kid is a prick
Derek: He got that icicle mentality.
Example two:
Alex: you seem unfazed by their insults, but how?
Brett: itâs icicle mentality.