The person in BDSM who dominates or controls the wordsubmissive/word partner. A dominant can be either a full-time Mistress or Master, or simply a top (the person doing the tying up or whipping, etc.)
The best kind of dominant is confidant and mature in their street life, too.
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Besides the common definition, a BDSM symbol of attachment of a submissive to a Dominant through collar made of metal, leather, or other material. Similar to a wedding band in vanilla society. Most collars are equipped with rings where a leash or restrain can be attached, like a dog's collar.
Wearing his collar to sleep was uncomfortable, but it reminded John all of the time that his Mistress loved and owned him, and he felt safe.
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A person in BDSM who submits to a Dominant person. A submissive can be a slave and/or the bottom (the person being tied up or whipped, etc.).
Janet was a submissive in bed, but she knew how to stand up for herself when her boss tried to push her around.
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A fetish or variety of porn involving cannibalism, occasionally by giants or giantesses, or even monsters. Usually a 'cyber' term; found on websites of this nature.
It's amazing what you find on the net these days-- Sam looked up information on carnivorous plants and got a vore site, full of stories about forty-story women swallowing their male amours.
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female dominant in a BDSM relationship
(usually spelled as a proper noun, e.g. 'Domme', as is it's male counterpart, 'Dom')
Michael only addresses his Mistress as 'ma'am'; he calls other Dommes by their given names.
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female dominant in a BDSM relationship. see wordDom/word
Gina is a Domme, but she enjoys being the bottom once in a while.
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Usually a BDSM term. Someone who enjoys physical pain and/or humiliation to great extremes; usually a submissive, but not in all cases. The word is generally applied to someone who 'can't get enough' pain and torture, similar to someone who enjoys promiscuous sex.
What I really need is a nice little painslut; all of my boyfriends have been pussies and even whined when I only whipped them.
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