Groomer

When you first hear the word “groomer” you might thing of a pet groomer washing & manipulating the fur.

This is how we think of groomers brainwashing & manipulating the thoughts of others.

Narcissists are known for grooming victims of their abuse to think it’s ok.
Religions & cults have been known to groom people into their beliefs.
American conservatives have started to use the term primarily directed towards sexual predators .

This term has been used to refer to situations of abuse in psychology for years now.
It has nothing to do with the LGBTQIA+ community

“He was just grooming you to think that way.”
“I was groomed to believe some wild things as a child.”
“I’m afraid your partner is an abusive groomer.”