Ash

A gender-neutral name, most commonly found in Non-Binaries and Gender Fluid people.
It is one of the most common names on the planet, and is rare to get in usernames.

Boy: "Yeah, I'm hanging out with Ash"
Girl: "Is Ash a boy or girl?"

Gay

A person who is homosexual
A person who feels sexual attraction to a man.
If you identify as a woman and like men, you are not gay, you are straight.

"Yes they are gay"
"So they only like men?"
"yes"