Herm used in a different context than person with both genitals Herm as in someone that wants to be gender neutral example:
rob:is that her over there?
April:Careful she identifies as gender-neutral she might get upset if you use that term she prefers the title shim or Herm
Rob: Oh sorry that person wasnât herm anyway I see Shim over there
Is that shim over there? I canât really see herm
Someone who identifies as gender neutral
Hey is that shim over there? I canât seem herm very well
Hey is that your friend over there?
Can you ask shim to help out today please?