A "stepford fag" is a gay man who wishes to get married, have kids, and live in a more traditional âheterosexualâ community.
Some people use the term to refer to gay men they believe are living an imitation heterosexual lifestyle.
First man: "You know Brain Kinney?"
Second man: "Yeah- that wild guy who used to party all night, havenât seen him around for a while."
First Man: âNot surprising. Heard heâs settled down and got married.â
Second Man: âNever thought he was a stepford fag.â
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