Just friends

Never claim to be "just friends" with a hot friend, if you don't want to make your partner suspicious. Better say they're your friend.

- Who did you go out with last night?
- With Sean. You know we're just friends, honey.
- Oh, really?

Sexcalator

When we repeat the same pattern in sex every time without considering alternative ways to enjoy the experience.

"You have so many options. It doesn't have to follow the sex escalator. The sexcalator is also a thing. We follow the same escalating steps to the same conclusion and there is no getting off that escalator, there's no going backwards, there's no choosing a different escalator, there's no using the elevator or the stairs if you want. And really, you can." Multiamory podcast, episode 352