A person who is gender fluid doesnât identify as one specific gender. Their gender identity can change. One day they could wake up feeling feminine, the next day they could feel masculine, the next day they could feel both and the next day they could feel neither. It can change each day or even during the day. Gender fluid people may prefer different pronouns than what they were assigned at birth. They may prefer all or different ones each day. For example on a day that they are feeling feminine they may prefer the pronouns she/her/hers, on a masculine day they may prefer he/him/his, on a fem and masc day they may prefer she/him/they pronouns or just they/them/their. On a neither day or (non binary) day they may prefer they/them/their. You just have to ask the person what their pronouns are that day because it can be different for everybody. When a person discovers they are gender fluid they may change their name to a more gender neutral name (ex- Charlie, rylie, etc) if you donât know what their pronouns are just ask, itâs not offensive it actually makes us feel better for you to ask.
Example:
Gender fluid person: âhey Dylan, I am gender fluid, and my preferred pronouns are they/them and Iâm changing my name to Morgan because it is gender neutralâ
Dylan: âok! I will support you all the way Morgan, and I am here for you if you need me. I am happy for you for coming out!â
Morgan: âthank you Dylanâ
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