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Double dipping

When a man decides to step out of your relationship to check out the field, and then attempts to return.

No, we’re not getting back together, I have a strict no double dipping policy. What do you think this is, salsa?

by HealthyMomNextDoor December 28, 2019


Tree Mullet

When the front of your Christmas tree is all decked out, and the back of the tree is completely blank.
"Party in the front, business in the back."

We let the boys decorate the Christmas tree, lo and behold, we ended up with a Tree Mullet.

by HealthyMomNextDoor December 16, 2014


Triangulation Tribe

When women you've messed around with while you had a girlfriend find out about each other, compare notes, and become friends.

He used the excuse that it wasn't "technically" cheating because they only went to "third base," but when the girls compared notes, they realized they'd all fallen for his BS and formed a triangulation tribe.

by HealthyMomNextDoor May 23, 2017


Hunger grid

A poverty stricken urban or suburban area, in which access to grocery stores and fresh food is severely limited, and also suffers from a significant lack of public transportation.

"We need to push legislation for grocery access in west Dallas, it's in the middle of the hunger grid."

by HealthyMomNextDoor June 8, 2016


emotional climate

A phrase used to describe the emotional level of a group of people in a specific area, region or country.

Veronica was hesitant to share her opinion at the symposium because the emotional climate of the room felt off.

by HealthyMomNextDoor January 15, 2018


soft narcissist

The worst type of narcissist and all around pretender, capable of acting like they have empathy, sympathy, are altruistic and act as if they want to be in a relationship. In reality, they are not capable of connecting and forming normal attachment bonds with others.
Creating a false reality that earns them respect and status, no one is truly close to the soft narcissist for their castle would crumble if anyone realized who they really were.

In need of constant praise, most often from the opposite sex, their victims are left feeling unworthy, like they are "never enough," suspicious and due to the myriad of lies, untrusting.

Soft narcissists use the same tactics to drag people into their web as the outward narcissist does, unfortunately because it seems as if they're "nice," their victims spend even longer in relationships with them before realizing it's all a big horrific show and THEY are the clown.
Breadcrumbing, deceit, gas lighting, devaluation and discarding... It's the same cycle, just softer.

She spent years of her life waiting for this "nice" guy to wake up and come around, only to realize after all the bread crumbing that he was just a soft narcissist, stringing her along.

by HealthyMomNextDoor April 9, 2017