It is a verb derived from the expression: "frame of refrence". it is used to describe a comparison between two levels of a category. One of these two levels is the user's own. With the help of frefrencing, the user is allowed to create a relative distance as a path to a greater goal and thus motivator.
Nihilist: "Everything is meaningless."
Average Freferencer: "Bro, just freference a little."
Not so much Nihilist no more: "Damn you right man, thanks!"
Just as a dish is removed from a menu card if it is not ordered, people can be excluded from society. To point out such happening one can use "get ordered" to let a person know before it's too late.
Stupid Kid: "Man, I really like Fortnite!"
Concerned Parent: "GET ORDERED!"
The curse of being stuck at the first peak of the "Dunning kruger Effect" diagram. It's the irony brought to us by the overly confident and eternally stupid.
A unintelligent person: "I'm not sophomanic, I'm just incredibly intelligent."