A person who receives vaginal sex, either penetrative or oral, is providing the pink.
Friend 1: âDid you have sex last night?â
Friend 2: âYeah, I was providing the pink.â
The person who is receiving penetrative anal sex is âproviding the brownâ. This is this is similar, but different, to someone who is providing the pink.
Partner 1: âDo you like to receive anal sex?â
Partner 2: âYeah, I love providing the brown.â