Beba

"Beba" refers to a specified and somewhat opaque term of endearment for a close and beloved family member, most often an elderly female, whose beauty can be described as having majestic qualities. Don't be fooled, a Beba, is known to wield weapons such as wooden spoon or belt to subdue opposition and verbal artillery such as "get over it" when others are taking on a victim mentality. As such, this term of endearment is used to describe the tension of the love and healthy fear of this endearing family member.

It sure was nice to meet your Beba, she makes great carne guisada.

My Beba gave an ass whipping then told me to get over it.