Kate

Kates are amazing people. They are intensely complicated, but can appear to be very simple. A Kate is the definition of layered or two faced. You will meet her and think “wow, she’s such a simple, put together, person just living her life” but if she lets you in you will start to see so many layers to her personality. She can be cute almost to a childish level, but only when she senses there is no call for anything else. She can handle responsibility really well and often takes on as much as she can to lighten the load for anyone else. A Kate can have a wide variety of emotions under all her layers. From highly emotional to very logical. A kate will want all their friends to lean on them, because she can’t stand knowing they are not okay. And trust me, they can always tell. If you have a Kate as a friend be careful not to let them only listen to your problems, even if they say they are alright and don’t need to talk you should make them. You should also be careful of triggers. Not all Kates have them, but most do. A kate can seem perfectly alright and very suddenly brake down. It might seem to give you whiplash. You will find nothing out of the ordinary in the conversation you were having with her. Don’t worry, you hit one of her triggers and it’s not likely your fault she is now upset. Be careful not to push to know what triggered her too quickly. Back off, give her some time, then ask. She is much more likely to answer you truthfully then.

Friend 1: Kate seemed in a great mood today

Friend 2: really? Was she acting like a five year old?

Friend 1: No..? She was just smiling a lot

Friend 2: Oh, well, be careful. Kate can smile through anything