hetlag is the time before someone comes out and the disorientation that follows.
whats wrong with john. Oh, he is just suffering from hetlag.
An Alphabit is a younger member of the LGBTQ+ community (ie Alphabet Mofia)
Used to describe a LGBTQ + person more than 10 years younger than yourself. Same way older straight people say kid
I always try to give good advice to my alphabits.