Ringa dingen

Midlife Crisis

When you find the bell of Ringa Dingen, In a can of soup. (The Ringa Dingen will choice you, cannot be found on demand)
But, once you accidentally choke on the bell of Ringa dingen, you will know it has chosen you, and that shall be the starting point of Ringa dingen/midlife Crisis

"I have finally been struck by the Ringa dingen man"

"I never chose to have the ringa dingen, it chose me."