A meme is an inside joke between you and the internet at large. Understanding it depends on real-time shared information that primarily happens online. This is why it's impossible to explain memes to people who did not grow up with regular internet use.
What's a meme? I don't get it.
Well...
In polyamorous relationships, your paramour is your primary relationship.
That's my paramour, David. We're married. Susan over there is my girlfriend.