When you realize that someone is jealous (he or/she) to the point its crazy, because you are and always were, cooler than them so they wanna destroy everything about you that they love so no one else will love you cuz they dont know how to love themselves.
Without knowing it you realize your walking on eggshells defending yourself about something you never did because the "pit person" knows they can never keep you they aren't cool enough to act right but you are like....omg I'm in the pit trying to explain how I'm real to the point I'm about to put the lotion on the skin and I don't even like this person or know how I got in the pit from silence of the lambs
"Tammy thought they could learn to love each other, but 12 years later she was like oh crap I'm in the pit with some jealous psycho gaslighting me" in the pit