An individual who appears attractive and well-put-together externally but is, in reality, disorganized or unstable internallyâwhether emotionally, mentally, or in their personal life. It represents a paradox between outer appearance and inner chaos, blending the allure of a âhottieâ with the dysfunction of a âhot mess.â
âShe may look put-together, but trust me, sheâs a hot potty through and throughâher life and behavior are as messy as it gets.â