Do you listen to girl in red is code for are you lesbian. Girl in Red is an Artist that most lesbians listen to. bi or pan girls also listen to girl in red, so they'll respond with, "yes and no. like I listen to sweater weather"
Bi/Pan girl: Do you listen to girl in red?
Lesbian: Yes
Lesbian: Do you?
Bi/Pan girl: Yes and no. I listen to sweater weather.
similar to confused, confoozled means you don't understand. usually used by someone trying to act cute or innocent but is just plain annoying.
im confoozled