prewhipped

coming into a relationship or marriage being completely controlled by your girlfriend or boyfriend as you enter the relationship; in most cases a guy being completely controlled by his girlfriend prior to entering a deeper relationship with that individual

I'm a catch because I come prewhipped.

left it in the sink

An unfinished argument or insult that two people have not resolved. The argument can continue at any moment.

"You're a casserole, Dudley! Last time you dished Michelle, you left it in the sink."