A man who obsesses over women, giving them all your time, money, dignity, and justifying red flags all while playing it off as "being a nice guy" is being a simp.
Keep in mind, being a simp/simping isn't defined by "being nice to women". Being nice to women is normal.
Correct use of the word:
Guy 1: "My girlfriend just took $300 from my bank account to go shopping without my permission."
Guy 2: "You gonna break up with her?"
Guy 1: "No, she probably didn't mean it."
Guy 2: "You're such a simp."
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