Literally the ONLY people you'll ever get to hang out with if you don't stop taking everything so goddamn seriously and grow a thick skin.
"You take things too seriously, either grow a thick skin, or hang out with Indonesians the rest of your life"
The most sure way to make absolutely everyone hate you. It's the absolute most DESPICABLE fucking thing a human being can ever do. Bar fucking none.
I will say this once, and I will not say it again:
NEVER.
GET.
DEFENSIVE.
It'll be the absolute last fucking thing you'll ever do. Mark my fucking words.
A: *gets defensive*
A: *gets hated by everyone*
A: *Surprised Pikachu face*
The gaslighter's bread and butter. The word you will most likely hear from them if you do anything other than acknowledge and accept their bullshit in some lame attempt to guilt trip you into doing it.
Gaslighter: *throws bullshit at victim*
Victim: *angrily reprimands gaslighter for it*
Gaslighter: "See, you're being defensive, stop it"
Literally the WORST quality to a human being ever. Bar fucking none. We might as well officially declare it the 8th deadly sin.
It's very common among those who are incapable of taking a harmless little joke and take every single thing so goddamn personally; the biggest red flag is how they'd always accuse someone of "bullying" them then get all defensive when they predictably get told otherwise, refusing to admit they're wrong and work on growing a thick skin and learning to control themselves.
A: "They were bullying me yesterday"
B: "Bruh, they were only teasing. Drop your victim mentality and grow up."
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The #1 most overused excuse used by Asian parents to justify beating the fuck out of their kids yet still get surprised when that only makes them even worse.
Korean kid: I can't believe you beated me up last night over crappy grades and kicked me out of the house.
Parent: It was just disciprine. I only did that because I love you.
Kid: bruh
Formerly "Sambience" and "Sam-sama", he's basically narcissism incarnate. Cruel, vicious, callous, arrogant, antagonistic, sadistic, condescending, egotistical, etc., any toxic trait you can think of, yet for some fucking reason everyone aware of him on YouTube loves him and puts him on their highest pedestals despite (or even BECAUSE of) his blatantly toxic behavior and will shame, undermine and slander anyone at the drop of the hat who ever has the temerity to suggest he's anything less than absolutely perfect, which is nothing short of wild.
His YouTube channel consists of an anime boy and a banner of a cropped picture of an anime guy playing the piano with a girl standing behind him, but that's all just there to deceive others (possibly deliberately) into believing he's some kind, warm-hearted individual.
The individual in question has a chronic habit of addressing others he antagonizes as "kid" and firing a minigun of all kinds of hurtful insults, just to intimidate them and rape their self-esteems and in a pathetic attempt to look "cool" as he often brags about. One may think he's a vicious 900 lb grizzly bear, but really he's an angry little chihuahua with a huge Napoleon complex, as any stereotypical internet tough guy would be. And this person actually confirmed it from his now-deleted videos showing photos of himself: a chubby little kid (ironically) in glasses who looks no older than a high school freshman.
Oh, speaking of internet tough guy, aeslhectic once claimed he's also just as tough in real life as he is on the internet, but thinking that'll convince anyone of his "coolness" and "toughness" is just insulting their intelligences.
He's the #1 reason why I wish Beyond Scared Straight gets renewed for more seasons.
A form of verbal abuse with the intention to make the victim feel guilty. Like getting raped but it's actually justified you deserved it 100%. Worse is the dilemma you get put into between dismissing it and making yourself look worse than before or giving in to their twisted perception and making yourself look weak-minded. The worst verbal abuse in existence. Bar none.
A: I did a harmless thing only to get a call-out on it for being "rude". Not only that, when I objected, even more people started calling me out on it and made me feel guilty over nothing. It felt far more burdensome than when some random stranger called me a racial slur. Because it's not like I deserved that.