neuro-indulgent

neuro-indulgent: To be obsessed with one's own neurodivergence; an excuse for unacceptable behaviour due to autism/adhd.

e.g. When an autistic or ADHD person tells you about their condition before they even tell you their name.

The sort of person guilty of this often has blue hair, facial piercings, gets offended on behalf of other people, virture signals, are unfiltered and passive-aggressive but will tell you they are 'unmasking'.

- Rather than just accepting they were rude, they went all neuro-indulgent on me and said they were unmasking.

- The coffee meet-up was ok, but I couldn't take anymore of their neuro-indulgent horse shit.

- Since she was diagnosed with autism at the age of 53 she's been constantly neuro-indulgent, it's exhausting.