tough nice guy

Rare person who manages to be tough yet still is frendly, Nice Bouncer, Firefighter, Soldier etc.

Billy: Did you hear what happened to Rob?

Jack: No what?

Billy: He's dating that mexican chick who would only date guys like that jerk Izayas!

Jack: Isn't he a bouncer?

Rob: Yeah and he knows how to talk to girls, man wish it was easy to become a tough nice guy.