Player

A player is a male who is skilled at manipulating others. Especially at seducing women by pretending to care about them, and pretending to be in a relationship with them. When in reality they are only interested in sex. He will tell you things like "your my perfect girl" "I've never felt this way about someone before"
"I know I'm going to fall in love with you"
A player will invite you round his house or take you out for dinner to make you believe they want to spend time with you but ultimately you will always end up back at there house at the end of the night. To get want he wants SEX.

A player will not spend time with you during the day. This is because they are not interested in spending time with you or going on day trips like normal couples. No the reason for this is because why would he spend 12 hours with you to get what he wants. When he could spend 3 hours with you on a night time to get the same result. (SEX).

When the player gets bored of this or bored of having sex with you he will simply move on to the next one. He may have even had many girls on the go at the same time.

The way to flush out a player is to not have sex with them for 6-8 weeks. If they are a player they will not stay around for long.

That lad is definitely a player. He has just told her what she wants to hear.