A race-neutral term for any stupid or self-important man you are dealing with.
âGirl, what did you get up to this weekend?â
âUgh, I watched âInceptionâ with my man and held my tongue while that Stiggaâ pretended to understand the plot!â
Or
âIâd love to come to your poodleâs Bat Mitzvah, Goldie, but I promised my Stiggaâ that I would go with him to Roosevelt Island that day. Stiggaâ thinks itâs so great, like he is gonna see some Galapagos tortoises or some shit like that!â
Or
âoh, Stiggaâ....*PLEASE*!