The spouse of a retired service member that still remains as an integral part of the Dependa Online Community.
This dependa typically considers themselves a âprofessional dependaâ, even though they often havenât stepped couch surfed with a hand on the phone with the other hand in the bag of Doritos since retirement.
Retired dependa: As a professional spouse (dependa), you should listen to me instead of complaining about (fill in the blank) and learn to appreciate your Jody.