A destroyer

A person (usually male) who is hell bent on the destruction of everything including himself. He may not be aware of it but in the end a Destroyer will end up ruining everything they have (relationships,businesses, social ties) and often times even destroy themselves mentally and physically regardless of their intent as pure as it might be. A Destroyer can never settle down or know true peace since their self destructive tendencies will make sure to fuck it up somehow.

This guys fists are always swollen from punching walls , hes a Destroyer

This dude broke up with his girlfriend for 5 years over nothing , hes a Destroyer