Do you have a soul tie? does it feel like no matter how hard you try to let them go you just canât? Like you want to but just canât seem to shake the essence they left on you? Does it feel like everyone around you hates you for simply not moving on causing you to become silent about your feelings. you have a soul tie. Which can also be called alpha widow syndrome. a phenomenon where you built up a person in your head and when the split came you didnât expect it or become ready for it. No matter who they are as a person you werenât ready because you wanted to be in that moment with them forever. Your life might have found peace for a second with them. So now you dwell on that time and donât fully let yourself grow out of it. You have a new partner but you miss the safe feeling your ex gave you. In my case my ex had bpd so was just mirroring me. It might be the same for you either way. Youâre building them up in your head. Youâre in love with a ghost and not this person but because you canât see reality clearly now you wont let them go and compare everyone after to that glorified fake image of them . If youâre able to remeet your old partner. Donât move on to them. See the real them. If they were so perfect they wouldnât have left you in this pain.
Some spiritual people may say they feel this other persons energy and that could be true since youâre attached too them. It doesnât mean theyâre thinking of you. Youâre attached to their energy.
Her soul was tied to his so she didnât feel herself anymore. She wasnât just herself anymore she had a soul tie.
A woman who obsesses over the image of a man. Although she can live a normal life and move on she feels a void. If sheâs able to remeet the man if sheâs sensible sheâll see he was nothing she imagine. If unsensible will go back to him despite his red flags.
People who suffer from alpha widow syndrome are able to live normal lives and grow and find someone better but the image they gave a person distorts reality so theyâre not able to see things for how they are.
The spiritual may also call this a soul tie.
Sheâs suffering from alpha widow syndrome so she wonât come out of her head.