Joshing

The event in wich you are asked put by a person in your romantic interest in a way that is slightly vague. Only minuts later to relize your mistake in turning down a potential partner.

Alyssa: hey Josh would you like to go to the car show Sunday

Josh: no I have to go to my dad's this weekend, sorry I can't

Alyssa: ok fine (walks away)
Josh 2 minuts later: oh crap, I was joshing right there.