Shane Shaming

To actively blame someone for the ways that you yourself victimize them. Transferring all of your negative qualities onto them and using those lies to slander them.

You are totally Shane shaming me for drinking some wine! You were stalking and trying to kill me. It's the other way around!

Robsplaining

Completely forgetting about the cruel things you do and unknowingly projecting them onto someone you are jealous of.

Stop Robsplaining, you were the one having sex with my wife!!!