Amber

An abusive, user of a person. Might shit the bed. Very bad actor but people will believe they're innocent in most situations.

"Did you hear how Amber abused Johnny?"

"No, because men can't be abused by women. Just because I slap or punch my boyfriend when he's pissing me off, it doesn't make me abusive, I'm a girl! He's a guy! He can handle it!"

"You're such an Amber."