To be cunty is to be feminine and to be, like, aware of yourself. Nobodyâs fucking with that inner strength and delicateness. The cunts, the gay men, adore that. My friends would say, âOh you need to cunt it up! Youâre being too banjee.â Banjee means unrefined and rough. You need your cunts: they fix your hair for you and do your makeup. They give you confidence and give you life.