TABOS

An acronym meaning "This (will) All Be Over Soon".

"This has been such a struggle, dude"
"Don't worry friend, TABOS"

Pulling a Toby

The act of a person abandoning and forever ignoring you due to a mental breakdown you had one night over a condition you have no control over, AND are being treated for.

She and her girlfriend are breaking up soon. Her girlfriend seems to be pulling a Toby.