a diya moment

1. This is when one's girl becomes significantly more important than the "boys" and so they get discarded from the list of priorities when she gets into the picture.

2. This is when one's girl has alrdy initiated or planned an activity and one's hands are tied due to the promise that was made which prevents him from engaging in any activity with the "boys" that would require more than 30% of his attention

P1: yo wheres santan tell him to hop on val
P2: He said he cant rn
P1: ah yes he must be having a diya moment
P2: yes a diya moment indeed