soft versatile

A Gay / Bi person who likes being submissive and dominant in sexual activities, but when it's it's turn to be the dominant, is very soft and gentle to his couple, asking a lot of questions on how is he doing "it".
Some cases includes the dominant taking trust of the situation and change it's behaviour to a rough one, if it's with the consent of it's couple.

X: Oh my god, ____ is such a soft versatile, I can see it from here!