FOG

Fear Obligation Guilt—the effects of psychological conditioning which results from long term gaslighting in a toxic/abusive/unhealthy relationship which prevents you from seeing that you are being manipulated into doing things/living in a way that is uncomfortable to you.

“Did you break up with Bob?”
“I tried but he said that if I leave he’ll kill himself”.
“Bullshit. He’s just trying to guilt you into staying. Girl, you need to clear the FOG and leave his ass”.