a man (or womans) 2nd, 3rd, 4th, or so ons partner, typically a woman (can also be a man). Whom s/he might not care as much for as his/her main hoe
girl 1: sis turns out im jus his side hoe, his main one showed up to his place while i was there
girl 2: oooo sweetie u was playeddd, u finna drop him
girl 1: mmm im jus finna ghost him lowkey
a person (typicaly male) who jus wants sum from a woman and is willing to do what ever for it
dude 1: ooo hes such a simp he brought her flowers and took her on a date to the movies and payed for the whole thing
dude 2: fr fr man bet he just wants to fuck her though
dude 1: nah i think he actually likes her and is nice to her