pillowing

to soften a conversation/discussion that is about to turn into a fight OR a fight dodged by a sweet comment.

Jane: Hey Max! Do you like my new hair?

Max: What about it?

Jane: Omg I can't believe you didn't realize!?
Max: Oh you died it blonde! You look beautiful as always my love.

Jane: Aww thanks babe.

Max thinking ("pheww... this is what I call pillowing. ")