homophobia

An uneasy feeling when somebody pretended to be your friend, but they really wanted it to be more.

I thought we were friends until he had too much to drink. Now it's just homophobia whenever I see him around.

homophobe

What you call yourself, when you find out a so-called friend really intended it to be more, and you feel uneasy about what happens next.

My sister felt like a homophobe when her best friend at work turned out to be a lesbian, and stalked her for months. My sister is married too, but that didn't matter. ick.