Aplatonic

Anon × platonicfree of sexuality and relational romanticness

~ a double negative meaning more sexual or more romantic than people would necessarily realise if the word weren't used.

Content warning for sexual harrassment You can say until the cows come home that you aren't coming onto me, but you've already said and done multiple aplatonic things, so you needed to back off a long time ago.

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Autopathetic

1.
adjective:

claiming to care more about some trivial sillyness to excuse foregoing inconvenient empathy

2.
adjective:

ACTUALLY caring more about one's own minutiae than other people's devastation

Autopatheticly, Brett Kavanaugh resentfully wimpered some random wistfulness about his dad's calenders.

aqueerplatonic

not defying traditional differences between romantic/sexual and platonic relationships or attractions.

"Queerplatonic" is an orientation of people who are sustainably fulfillable in friendships that blur traditional platonic boundaries- usually people who are not desirous of an all-out traditional relationship.

"Aqueerplatonic" can either clarify a specific relationship or an individual's relational nature("orientation"), habits, or availability.

Also, I *think* that this word is mostly used in the broader asexual-&/or-aromantic-&/or-nonpartnerring community, so it might usually quantify a slightly more intimate friendship or mean being even less open to anything nonplatonic.

However, it seems to me that it can also mean that someone is most fulfilled while keeping their relationships clearly defined. We all need to communicate about expectations when we date. Many people strongly prefer dating with pre-decided perameters, but many others date to *discover what feels right*. :) Either can be fine if it works for you! ^-^

I understand that you aren't hitting on me, but i'm too *aqueerplatonic* for what you're proposing.

or

I'm asexual, aromantic, *and* *aqueerplatonic*, so just treat me like a friend, please!....

or

I am *stoked* about you, but you also seem like a very decisive & boundaried person who might even be *aqueerplatonic*.. Let's agree on boundaries about my friends before we date, so that you won't resent me! ^-^-^-^....