1. Initially Gay means disappointing, and or evoking disappointment. Even the look of the face of a frowning person due to their disappointment all Due to unmet expectations .
2. And Gay Colloquially conjures homosexual denotations
We were calling them gay way before they called themselves "gay" lovers
Mean way - You're so gay, You are so gay, you like men.
Good way - Are you gay, Do you like men, Do you like men just asking?