A happy act of delightfulness with a small touch of something undescribable
I love the delightfully twisted imagination that you have.
a) masturbating in public
b0 working your tail off to get something done, but unfortunately, achieving no results, or not the results that you hoped.
in terms of definition a) what your are doing is socially inappropriate, so stop twisting your tail. in definition b) if all you are doing is twisting your tail, you may be doing something wrong, and that is why you are not achieving any results.
A) masturbating in public
B) working your ads off, but unfortunately, achieving no significant results
If your problem is twisting your tail, definition b), it is time you considered stopping twisting your tail, definition a)