A trap house with only dudes and fat chicks.
Dude, that place got old, it's like a gay trap house full of fat bitches.
When someone decides that you are not quer. Often associated with bi erasure and biphobia
Koen: I'm bi
Rishab: no you aren't
Koen: you have gay-tkept me
The gay guy whose emotional strength is extracted in order to prop up his less resilient friends, co-workers, family, or strangers.
“I can’t constantly be your emotional support gay, Karen. It’s exhausting.”
Also spelled "safegay," this refers to implied homosexuality in a fictional work done subtly enough to be marketed towards a mostly straight audience or to children. This usually occurs when the creators don't want to cause controversy. or the higher-ups wanted them to tone it down if the plan was originally to show it more obviously.
Usually, it's hard to catch the first time around, but becomes more obvious each time you consume that media.
Coined by Stacy on the YouTube channel, Geek Remix.
It took Sarah a couple seasons to catch the "safe gay" in her favorite television show, but once she noticed it, it was cemented in her mind.
ME
guy 1: ur gay
Guy 2: yea, ur really gay
Me: I know im gay
Also me: REEEEEEEEE