Harmful term for the lgbtq+ community that is used to signify that a person that identifies as gay or lesbian had never had sex with the other gender.
The term is considered harmful by members of the community for some of the following reasons (list not exclusive):
It shames people that were not identifying with that one term from the beginning on, making them feel less.
It pushes the stereotype of having to know you were gay or lesbian since forever, not allowing people to have space in order to experiment with their sexuality.
It creates this "elite" of people that were always aware they were gay/lesbian.
It takes away from experiences that closeted and scared lgbtq+ people had, trying to fit in by being with the opposite sex.
"Sarah has never been with a man, has she?"
"Yeah, she's a Golden Gay/Lesbian."
a gay bish is someone who can be feisty at some times but is also gay
Hey vanessa do u know kiwi
no what is she
Shes a gay bish -_-
Oh fu-
as in homosexual - Johnn Marston's famous words from the popular Rockstar games. Red Dead Redemption
"Hey, i like men"
"YOU'RE FUCKING GAY, AS IN HOMOSEXUAL''
remember, a Gay Christian is not a contradiction a hateful one is
child-sized people who like the same sex they are
"your a gay-midget!"
When a male dates a transgender female, he is known to the public as gay, yet what he is hittin' has a coochie. this makes him straight.
"I've been dating this guy for 8 weeks now, I guess I'm pretty gay!"
"Nah you false gay because the dude you lovin' on has a vagina!"