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pick me

a person, specifically a woman, who will do anything extra to receive the attention and validation from men.
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speaking from experience (being friends with a pick-me), there are many people today who will do anything for the attention and validation from men.

there are men who will find humor off of r@pe/SA, misogyny, homophobia, racism, and more. a person who craves the attention from men will adapt to that type of humor to please problematic men. a person who craves attention from men will throw their own friends under the bus (specifically non-men) to praise other men; to put them first before anything.

i really dislike sara, she is a pick me. i remember one time she purposely made fun of me in front of a huge group of boys just to see them all laugh... i never felt so embarrassed yet so betrayed in my entire life.

by gissguu March 19, 2022


Pick me

A girl constanly seeking male attention(Isabella) (mia Leigh)

Person 1: i need a pencil
Person 2: ok ask Isabella
Person 1: nah she is a pick me
Person 2: ok ask mia Leigh
Person 1: shes also a damn pick me

by Darkness652 March 9, 2024


Pick Me

When a girl does something for male validation. It can be bringing down others (girls in this situation), changing the way they act only when around boys (or changing their whole self just to please boys) and agreeing on sexist things they say towards women.

... said she belongs to the kitchen, she's such a Pick Me.
... said I wear wayy too much makeup and that's why boys don't like me. She's such a Pick Me!

by March 29, 2021


Pick me

A pick me or a pick me boy is an individual that has the adm-bdh syndrome. A rare infectious disease that makes you a pathetic ugly piece of shit.

- Eww they used the pick me emoji "🥺"
- They must have the adm-bdh syndrome. Heard that shit makes you gay.

by Gods favorite March 5, 2022


Pick Me

A "Pick Me" Girl is a slang term used to describe girls who desperately try to seem like they're different or "not like other girls" in order to attract male attention. "Pick me" girls are often portrayed as females who bend over backward for men to fit in as "one of the boys" by any means necessary, including supporting traditional female gender roles like cooking and cleaning for their partners or putting down other women. They often remove themselves from coffee review posts as a tag. They also usually have a massive sook when they get named pick me. Such that they would stop talking to you. They are often jealous of what matt and are have.

Ohh look at that photo such a pick me thing to do. Reminds me of what that Sarah Mccartney girl always posts.

Look she wants attention... such a Sarah thing to do.

by Marvilscious February 3, 2022


Pick Me

A term coined by bitter feminists to shame non feminist women from agreeing with the criticisms hurled at modern feminist women by anti feminist traditionalist men. It acts as a deflectionary tactics to intimidate righteous women into silence because the feminist man hating agenda needs all of modern women's compliance for it to work.

Pick Me labels have been refashioned into an insult for traditional women no different than being labeled a house wife is akin to being a slave to a man.

The reality is a Proverbs 31 woman is a Pick Me.

“She’s always agreeing with those MGTOW men about modern progressive women criticisms, she’s such a pick me, eww.”

by Vin Lloyd University (VLU) April 6, 2022


Pick me

A “Pick me” individual is an individual who belongs to a marginalized group within a society who seeks approval from the dominant hegemonic group by repeatedly reiterating the validity of negative biases held by the dominant hegemony against the “Pick me’s” own group.

The desperation for the approval can lay in the Pick me’s poor self confidence, seen as a way highlight theirselves without highlighting oneself, and an avenue for political or financial gain

Candace was unable to find a long term boyfriend until she became a Pick me and began to appealing towards misogynistic men by agreeing with their misogyny.

by Incredulous Johnny January 16, 2024