Bother Mother

An individual whom uses such words "oh bother" at a concerning level. Often used by names beginning with H,J,K, L and V.

girl 1: Oh bother
girl 2: uhh not again

girl 1: dont be such a bother
girl 2: yep you're a bother mother

botherable

able to bother or possible to be bothered. The complete opposite of inbotherable.

she claims she doesn"t want to be bothered, but she looks botherable.

big bothered

When someone is done over it. Big (greatly) bltheted

By the time she had waited for someone to show up and they flaked, she was big bothered