A particularly lengthy john thomas, langer, todger, willy, ding-dong, or wotsit, which reaches as far as your lover’s liver.
“You’re walking a bit funny, is your stomach okay?”
“My date last night had a liver botherer, I might need some time to recover”
A rock climber, or someone who’s into ‘bouldering’. The more serious a rock botherer, the more they tend to bother it. They will stare at the rock wall, brush it, hang off it and usually leave blood, sweat and tears behind on it.
“Here come another tribe of holier-than-thou rock botherers. Just keep moving or they’ll heel hook your armpit and hang off your jugs.”
When someone is done over it. Big (greatly) bltheted
By the time she had waited for someone to show up and they flaked, she was big bothered
(N) person who comes around to have tea/coffee with cancer patient and leaves all the dirty dishes and rubbish for the spouse to clean up.
I see a cancer botherer has been here.